Reddit User Account Overview

/u/



https://www.reddit.com/r/homeassistant/comments/10uuil0/any_ups_battery_backup_solutions_supported_by/

I'm in the market for an UPS solution that will bear roughly 300-400 watts (my low-power server rack) for over an hour. Traditional UPSes seem to be *absurdly expensive* for anything above 10 minute runtimes, and most UPSes would require serial or USB cabling to integrate into HA (those supporting SNMP often cost hundreds of dollars more with no additional capacity). That is without taking into account their often-garbage battery technology and durability (most are still using lead acid!). I have looked into the Ecoflow Delta Max and Delta 2, and they are certainly up to the task. I really like the Ecoflow products, and I think (based on YT videos of tests) their River 2 can tide my server rack over easy (30 ms switch time, good enough for standard PC power supplies). To get to multi-hour run times, I was looking into their Delta series (which kick in 30 seconds after an outage). Sadly the Delta Max is out of my budget (roughly $1000) an the Delta 2 has an OK price, but it not supported by the [https://github.com/vwt12eh8/hassio-ecoflow](https://github.com/vwt12eh8/hassio-ecoflow) integration. Cloud integrations are out of the question simply because a power outage almost certainly means I cannot monitor my UPS using Home Assistant — and, of course, why do I need to give Ecoflow my power data to begin with? So, what solutions are there available for those of us who want to power a moderate load uninterruptibly, within a (fairly generous but not datacenter) budget, and integrate with Home Assistant? Thank you very much in advance for your ideas.

posted by /u/Rudd-X in /r/homeassistant on February 5, 2023 21:00:08

https://www.reddit.com/r/dirtypenpals/comments/10uq7i2/f4m_looking_for_a_rockstar/

Hi! I’m looking for a short term chat and/or rp, I really enjoying talking and becoming friends as well as writing a fun and frisky story together Love alternative guys, I haven’t been meeting any lately though and I’m getting a twinge bored (I’m case you’re wondering, I myself have been described as being on the emo/goth side of things) I really want you to catch my interest, and I’ll do my best to catch yours Also doesn’t matter wether you’re dominate or submissive, I like both ;) The general idea for the rp is right here: but I’m game to tweak it, change it, or do something different! This is just something I’m in the mood for currently: (Also keep in mind this is written kind of vaguely, because I can see either of us playing either role, or playing either role in a more submissive/dominate manner) One of us is a small, start up rockstar; playing local grungy venues for barely enough money to pay for gas And the other, wether by choice or if they were dragged in by a friend, comes along to one of these “concerts” and becomes obsessed with the others style, sound, and basically everything about them. This story either progresses with, one of us being the shyer, creepier type, and a slight stalker situation, following each other around town, from show to show, desperate for another glimpse into this strangers life, infatuated with them. Joining chat rooms and starting fan clubs Or, maybe if you’re more confident in your flirting abilities and, by chance, we run into each other after the show and really hit it off, and maybe a few favors are arranged, like letting them sleep on your couch between shows in return for free admission (one of us is obviously getting the better end of the deal) And maybe we can throw a vampire wrench in there, you never know ;) The general thing I’m feeling like, Kind of obsessive, creepy, romantic, dark, dramatic and edgy, kind of 80’s goth vibe. There’s so many other things I’m into and interesting things to hear about me, but we can discuss that over dm’s if you’re intrigued! 🖤

posted by /u/x-sugar_bear-x in /r/dirtypenpals on February 5, 2023 17:54:41

https://www.reddit.com/r/Unexplained/comments/10uoymw/multiverse_phenomenon/

02/05/2023 I'm not exactly sure if I'll be able to explain this correctly. And I'm not even sure if it's something that's even worth sharing or talking about. But with how I felt this morning when I woke up, I just feel like getting it out of my chest. A couple of weeks ago, I had this...dream, or experience if you would. I felt like a ghost, drifting through a world that wasn't my own. When I was looking around, I didn't recognize anything that might give me any sort of hint of where I might be. It wasn't until my mom and sister walked into the room I was in. They didn't notice me, or couldn't see or hear me. And the strange thing is, they looked a bit different than what my mom and sister look like. But I knew, in my heart, that they were who I thought they were. Then that's where I walked into the room. The other me, that is. Him I recognized, he looked like me in every way. They were talking and laughing, like any other normal family would. Meanwhile, I was just staring, watching silently. Some time had passed, and my other self and sister were home. My mother had gone out to run an errand. My sister's phone rang, and she answered. She looked at my other self with tears in her eyes after a while. And my other self grew worried, frustrated. Repeatedly asking what was wrong till he took the phone himself. Then time seemed to skip, and I was dragged to a hospital room. I saw my other self and sister crying, holding onto my mother's hand. She had died. Time skipped once again, my other self locked away in what looked like an apartment. I'm not entirely sure how long had passed, but he no longer looked like me. The look in his eyes, almost as if he was soulless. As if he had given up on living. His hair was long and ragged, unkempt. That whole time, I could feel how I guessed he was feeling. No longer wanting to live, but not having the courage to end it. He missed his mom dearly, just like how I would if it had happened to me. He wanted to die. He cried every day, and his heart ached so much. It was a terrible feeling. So cold. Just remembering it and typing this at the moment is bringing me to tears. Time skipped once again. My other self looked older by about a few years. There was a pep in his step now, but he looked focused. I'm not exactly sure where we were. It looked like a room inside a large facility of sorts. A bunch of equipment everywhere. He was mumbling to himself a lot. Thought I couldn't understand. He had created some sort of portal of sorts, the size of a door. When he flipped a few switches and slammed down on a button with the palm of his hand, the portal came to life. A dark blue in color, radiant, lighting up the entire room in its hue. In that moment, my other self felt a sense of hope. He was happy and hopeful for once after so many years. He hesitated, but he stepped through slowly. Then here was the strange part, I felt like him and I seemed to peer into each other's memories. I knew I was sleeping, I knew I was dreaming. But it felt like I was communicating in some way, with something, someone. I couldn't wake up. Though the communication was more one-sided. I felt like someone or something was going through my memories, my dreams. Most of them are with my mother and I. In my dream, I began to cry. Happy tears, sad tears. I can't explain it, and I'm sorry if I'm not doing it any justice. Then, the rapid flash of dreams and images stopped. And we began...talking, in a way. I can't explain it. It was dark, I couldn't see him and he couldn't see me. But we knee were there, and we knew we could both hear each other. Is it possible to accept someone else, a multiversal self, into you? My other self, he told me, he didn't want to live anymore. He didn't want to live a life without his mom in it. At least, one who was taken from him too soon. He wanted to die, but he couldn't pull the trigger. For the rest of his life, he worked on something that could take him outside of his world(?) and into another so he could be reunited with his mom. And it worked. He did it. Though he couldn't choose where to go. Things were silent for what felt like a long while, then all he said is for me not to worry, all this would feel like a dream. I woke up from my long slumber. My eyes burned, my cheeks were wet with tears, and my pillow was also wet from what I guessed were tears as they rolled off my cheek. I was extremely confused. I dried my cheeks and eyes off, and I got up off of bed to stare myself in the mirror to make sure I was still me, as strange as that may sound. And I was. I brushed the dream aside and stepped out to the kitchen to drink some water. I was extremely thirsty. Then my mom walked in and said good morning nonchalantly. I turned to stare and say it back at her, when my words just froze. I was on the verge of tears again, and I felt this great sense of joy in my heart. As if a deep dark hole was filled. As if I had regained something I lost so long ago. I quickly turned away to avoid any embrassment and dried my eyes up. The whole time thinking what the hell was wrong with me. It's my mom, I just saw her last night, and I'm over here getting emotional. Once I regained my composure, I wished her a good morning as well. Then something seemed to take over, and I gave her a long hug. She laughed and asked what that was about. I'm not much of a hugger, which was odd to both her and I. I was confused too. I just shrugged and played it off. Thanks for reading. I'm still not entirely sure what's going on, I feel like I'm back to my old self now. But I can't shake this feeling that there's even a small part of someone else inside of me. Maybe I'm just overthinking this. Maybe it was all just a dream and I'm letting it affect me too much. But I figured writing this out will help me move on. If you'd like, share your own experiences with me! If you had any similar ones or anything like that. Would help me feel less crazy in all honesty. I hope you have a great day, and take care!

posted by /u/X-Zerostar in /r/Unexplained on February 5, 2023 17:04:09

https://www.reddit.com/r/dirtypenpals/comments/10uibcu/f4m_seduced_by_your_new_live_in_nanny/

Your wife is a busy business woman who’s just gotten promoted this year. With her promotion comes a multitude of business trips that the two of you had never had to plan around before. With your two kiddos and you having to work from home it will be nearly impossible for the two of you to keep up with it all, hell it was a struggle before she was going to be gone all the time. You two have always considered a live in nanny but now it’s absolutely necessary. Your wife, through the neighborhood grapevine, heard about me. I’ve babysat for a couple of your neighbors but most of it shorter term for vacations and things of that nature. She contacted me and I was absolutely elated when she reached out. It sounded like a perfect opportunity for me to quit my shitty barista job while I put myself through college. A nice big house with a pool and hot tub, the basement I would be staying in was practically an apartment, and you’d be paying me? What more could a college girl ask for? Except for maybe a hot dad to go with it all. Her and I met for coffee to chat about daily duties and the things you guys would need from me. All of it seemed pretty standard to me. We agreed on a “trial run” while she was gone on her first business trip so we could see if it would be a good fit. She gave me a date to be there so she could introduce me to you and show me around the home. A couple of days before I’m supposed to be there I’m drinking my morning coffee and reading course notes when i get a phone call. ‘Mrs. Johnson’ comes up on the caller ID. “Hello? Is everything okay Mrs. Johnson?” “Not quite, Jules.” She starts with a deep sigh. “My flight got rescheduled for tonight at 10pm, is there any way you could be here tomorrow morning? 8 o’clock - ish?” “Not a problem at all!” I reply sweetly. We chat a bit before hanging up and I spend the rest of my day packing for my two week long stay. —————————————————— Hello DPP’s this is a roleplay I’ve been thinking about for a very long time. Ideally it starts when you and I meet the next morning and goes from there. I’m a slow burn kind of girl and expect this to be a longer term thing. I love lot of teasing and tension, so if you’re into that please shoot me a message! I’m also very open to any extra elements or ideas that you may have so please don’t hesitate with those. Character is Jules. 5ft tall, shoulder length brown hair, big golden brown eyes. Curvier body type especially in the chest, hips and thighs. I have a few tattoos scattered across my body and a few piercings too. Most of my kinks are bdsm related, IRL I really enjoy, breath play, impact play, am a huge rope bunny. Love praise, denial, being edged, all sorts of stuff really and am super open to kinks as well if you have any favorites. My limits are pretty standard. No snuff, gore, toilet play, no beastiality, not super into breeding or impregnating either. Happy reading!!

posted by /u/x-callmekitten-x in /r/dirtypenpals on February 5, 2023 12:40:09

https://www.reddit.com/r/teenagers/comments/10ub02t/mixed_signals_help/

Hello I'm (16) F in high-school, and currently i have this person i really like. The problem i need advice for though is the fact that i don't know whether or not they like me back. What makes it difficult is that they are also F (16) and they don't know their sexual orientation. They aren't a very touchy person or very outgoing, kinda like a cat they only approach me when they feel like it. So a lot of the moments i've had with them were initiated by them. But when they do approach me and they do interact with me, it all seems very not platonic? One time we hung out and they held my hand for 2 hours, their excuse? "you might get lost, or run away..?" and it's in the tone you think it is. what hits it home is that, while yes this could be platonic all of this is probably because we're close friends... they don't do this with anyone else they have other friends they are close to. It's all so confusing for me because they know i'm queer and that i like someone (they don't know its them) and they keep initiating these moments with me. its not just hand holding either, they let me rest my head on their lap, they hold my hand and squeeze it gently in class (not even a stressful class for either of us they just did it), they play with my hair, they rest their head on my shoulder and they proceeded to caress my arm and hand (we were playing video games). my roommates say that this isn't platonic, a part of me thinks so too. but i could be wrong and lose a really good friendship too...

posted by /u/x-nugget-x in /r/teenagers on February 5, 2023 07:08:21

https://i.imgur.com/OswrsCK.jpeg

posted by /u/Zenz-X in /r/bonapetits on February 5, 2023 01:33:24

https://www.reddit.com/r/dirtypenpals/comments/10u4efm/f4m_seduced_by_your_new_live_in_nanny/

Your wife is a busy business woman who’s just gotten promoted this year. With her promotion comes a multitude of business trips that the two of you had never had to plan around before. With your two kiddos and you having to work from home it will be nearly impossible for the two of you to keep up with it all, hell it was a struggle before she was going to be gone all the time. You two have always considered a live in nanny but now it’s absolutely necessary. Your wife, through the neighborhood grapevine, heard about me. I’ve babysat for a couple of your neighbors but most of it shorter term for vacations and things of that nature. She contacted me and I was absolutely elated when she reached out. It sounded like a perfect opportunity for me to quit my shitty barista job while I put myself through college. A nice big house with a pool and hot tub, the basement I would be staying in was practically an apartment, and you’d be paying me? What more could a college girl ask for? Except for maybe a hot dad to go with it all. Her and I met for coffee to chat about daily duties and the things you guys would need from me. All of it seemed pretty standard to me. We agreed on a “trial run” while she was gone on her first business trip so we could see if it would be a good fit. She gave me a date to be there so she could introduce me to you and show me around the home. A couple of days before I’m supposed to be there I’m drinking my morning coffee and reading course notes when i get a phone call. ‘Mrs. Johnson’ comes up on the caller ID. “Hello? Is everything okay Mrs. Johnson?” “Not quite, Jules.” She starts with a deep sigh. “My flight got rescheduled for tonight at 10pm, is there any way you could be here tomorrow morning? 8 o’clock - ish?” “Not a problem at all!” I reply sweetly. We chat a bit before hanging up and I spend the rest of my day packing for my two week long stay. —————————————————— Hello DPP’s this is my first post here and a roleplay I’ve been thinking about for a very long time. Ideally it starts when you and I meet the next morning and goes from there. I’m a slow burn kind of girl and expect this to be a longer term thing. I love lot of teasing and tension, so if you’re into that please shoot me a message! I’m also very open to any extra elements or ideas that you may have so please don’t hesitate with those. Most of my kinks are bdsm related, IRL I really enjoy, breath play, impact play, am a huge rope bunny. Love praise, denial, being edged, all sorts of stuff really and am super open to kinks as well if you have any favorites. My limits are pretty standard. No snuff, gore, toilet play, no beastiality, not super into breeding or impregnating either. Happy reading!!

posted by /u/x-callmekitten-x in /r/dirtypenpals on February 5, 2023 00:35:00

https://i.redd.it/09juqggdibga1.jpg

posted by /u/k-m-x in /r/wine on February 4, 2023 20:54:56

https://i.imgur.com/E4hDTmT.jpeg

posted by /u/Zenz-X in /r/bonapetits on February 4, 2023 18:55:59

https://www.reddit.com/r/openSUSE/comments/10tptrc/setting_up_ssh_on_new_opensuse_tumbleweed_install/

For years I had a small server that I used it for SSH tunneling (and now for my daughters). I decided to replace this with a (mini PC) running on Intel and Tumbleweed because updating on the Cubox-i was a PITA. Anyway, setting up SSH *NEVER* just works. Some questions for any of you with experience on openSUSE. 1.) I'm noticing that openSUSE does things a little differently? On openSUSE the sshd_config file appears to be in the usr/etc/ssh/ directory. The file states that this is a systemwide config file and says to create a *.conf file in the usr/etc/ssh/sshd_config.d directory. So I copied the sshd_config file over to the sshd_config.d directory, renamed it sshd.conf and uncommented the lines I needed. 2.) Password Authentication is set to NO. 3.) Pubkey Authentication is set to YES. 4.) Uncommented Port 22 5.) Made sure ***ten times over*** that all the rights/permissions for the authorizedkeys file, the public and private keys were correct. The pubkey contents were transferred to the authorizedkeys file. *But*: When trying to SSH, the server continues to ask for a password instead of the pubkey passphrase. I'm at wits end. I know there's probably one, just one, little knob I need to turn and it will all magically work. And now I'm getting "Start Request Repeated to Quickly" error message. SSH Daemon won't even start and I have no clue. None. Am thinking of completely reinstalling the OS and starting over.

posted by /u/Generic_Commenter-X in /r/openSUSE on February 4, 2023 15:05:22

https://i.redd.it/eqm8z0bgu8ga1.jpg

posted by /u/Cherri-X in /r/u_Cherri-X on February 4, 2023 11:57:17

https://www.reddit.com/r/forhonor/comments/10tan7h/big_thumbs_up_to_the_animation_team_and_a_few/

So we've had Afeera for 2 days now, and i hope Devs are reading the posts regarding the newest hero, THIS is exactly how you get people into the newest hero, her animations are fluent, they are coordinated really good and her executions are bad ass ! If you continue with releasing heroes with this ammount of work put into them then you'll have a pretty happy community ! There are some who want the gender lock removed, and to some degree i agree, its just more fun to be able to choose, so maybe consider it moving forward ? I think i'm speaking for the majority when i say that we really need new maps for Dominion and Breach, new heroes are cool, but we need new places to fight, now that we have heroes from Egypt and so on, maybe one focused on that region ? Armors ; Please make unique armors for the old and new heroes, just small changes to the details isn't enough, it is boring and grinding for the new sets isn't exactly worth it, how about a " Reaper " focused Hitokiri ? Dark short robe with a long hood ( masked and unmasked ) and a withered Masakari axe, Highlander barechested with tattoo's and leather strappings across the chest and a young face with long hair and short/bald as an alternative, maybe even let the player choose hair color like with Kyoshin, a Warden with Centurion-like chest armor and a cloak/cape and a helmetless helmet choice. Just a few suggestions in case Ubi lurks on the Sub, and again - great job with the new Hero.

posted by /u/X-WellOkay-X in /r/forhonor on February 4, 2023 04:01:09

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships_advice/comments/10t1wcw/am_i_m25_being_too_insecure_towards_my_gf_f23/

So about 2 months ago my girlfriend (F23) who I (M26) have been talking to for about 6 months and now been officially dating for 4 months had one of her friend/ex who had committed suicided and she was the last person he was in contact with and this has affected her really bad. Apparently they used to have a thing but it was nothing serious as she told me that it was more so off she was trying to help him get through some stuff he was going through and also apparently he's been depressed for awhile ever since his dad had passed away and then he got diagnosed with epilepsy and he didn't take that well and starting drinking more heavily and starting fighting with his friends more and one day it came to a point where he had hit my girlfriend as she was trying to stop fighting one of his best friends. She has told me he used to manipulate her in every way possible and he was not a nice very person and would usually take his anger out on her and just basically treated her like shit yet she stated she still loved him and wanted to help him because my girlfriend is somewhat of a people pleaser and has this thing where she wants to help everyone as she has had a traumatic childhood herself regarding her dad being abusive and hasn't really been part of her life that much and she has survived through cancer to which she was diagnosed with at the age of 17/18. In saying all of this I only came to find out about this after he had died I don't mean about her traumatic childhood and cancer I meant everything about this guy. I met her through work for her nursing training and we got along well and started to fall for each other and we became more closer each day. Just as time passed and her training was coming to an end she told me she's ready to take things seriously with us but after she leaves work as she didn't want to start dating while we were both working together and I was on the same page too. We both agreed to take a week off after she's finished her time at my work and try go on dates/ hanging out etc. Fast forward to the week off we both took, I texted her saying I've got this really nice restaurant that I wanted to take to her to as our first date and she replied back saying she doesn't think she's ready for a relationship just yet and she needed to focus on herself and find herself first and I was very understanding with everything and gave her the time that she needed. She did say she still wanted to talk to me in the meantime. After 2 weeks she messaged me saying she tried to stop two of her friends (both males) fighting and that's when she got hit by her friend let's just call him Lucas the friend that had committed suicide. She rung me later on that night saying she felt that I was the right guy for her and she felt safe around me and we started sort of seeing each other more. During the 2 weeks we hardly spoke she was spending a lot of time with her friends and she went out a lot drinking and I assumed she needed this to maybe I dont know help herself. But after Lucas's death I put all the puzzles together and figured out all this time she was focusing on this guy and she was with him trying to help him when she told me she needed to work on herself which made me really upset because I sorta got pushed aside like I was nothing and then she came back when she felt like Lucas was treating her like shit and felt like she wanted to get serious again with us. Her friends even told her to block him and stop talking to him as they saw how he treated her but she was still around him. Fast forward to Lucas's passing they have been messaging back and forth that night it had all happened as she said she was trying really hard to get him to go home as she was worried about the way he was talking and during this we had started dating already. She came over to mine in the morning as she was doing night shift and had a sleep once she woke up one of her friends rung her and told her what had happened and she was absolutely shattered and blamed herself for everything, me being a good boyfriend I understood everything after she told me and I have supported and have been there for her since this whole thing had happened. It's been 2 months since his passing and she still blames herself and she spends quite abit of time with Lucas's family mainly his mum and she has also been going over to his best friends house where he used to stay aswel and she's been spending time there a lot too. Now I'm a really understanding guy and i have been all my life but for some reason I am feeling a little insecure that she has been going over to the best friends house and checking up on him and spending time with him and I wouldn't hear from her for maybe a couple of hours. After finding out about her Lucas I have been having little bit of trust issues with her now reason being I was lied to at the start that she needed time to find herself but really she was helping this other guy all along. I have talked about this with her and she understands what she did was wrong and said it wasn’t “anything like that” but my insecurities have heavily increased since that day and my anxiety is through the roof and I always feel like I'm on the edge now but I don't really express it infront of her. I've had a terrible past aswel where I suffered from really bad depression and would often abuse drugs as a gateway but I've come a long way and have sorted myself out but I feel like it's slowly creeping up on me again because I thought I had finally found someone that I could see a future with because I have been on a few dates before her and I seem to have connected really well with her and she said she felt the same. But my point here is am I being too insecure and selfish here to have these thoughts because she's got a photo of him and her as her cover photo on her Facebook and it just absolutely shatters me whenever I see it l. Part of the reason could be I have never met any of her any of her friends and shes met all of mine, she says they all know about me but never once mentioned about meeting them. Like she says that I'm the one for her and wants to be with me and have a future with me but there's still the thought at the back of my head that somethings gonna happen or the best friend of Lucas might fall for her since she goes there a lot. I’m just a little lost at the moment with this whole thing even though she’s reassured that nothings going on and she tells me she’s going over to the best friends house with other friends but somehow I find that hard to believe.

posted by /u/Pr33-X in /r/relationships_advice on February 3, 2023 20:53:13

https://imgur.com/a/rUFgt29

posted by /u/X-330-145-1 in /r/lucypinder on February 3, 2023 20:21:16

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/10t0eqg/trust_issues_with_my_gf_f23_me_m25/

Apologies this might be a long one So about 2 months ago my girlfriend who I have been talking to for about 6 months and now been officially dating for 4 months had one of her friend ex who had committed suicided and she was the last person he was in contact with and this has affected her really bad. Apparently they used to have a thing but it was nothing serious as she told me that it was more so off she was trying to help him get through some stuff he was going through and also apparently he's been depressed for awhile ever since his dad had passed away and then he got diagnosed with epilepsy and he didn't take that well and starting drinking more heavily and starting fighting with his friends more and one day it came to a point where he had hit my girlfriend as she was trying to stop fighting one of his best friends. She has told me he used to manipulate her in every way possible and he was not a nice very person and would usually take his anger out on her and just basically treated her like shit yet she stated she still loved him and wanted to help him because my girlfriend is somewhat of a people pleaser and has this thing where she wants to help everyone as she has had a traumatic childhood herself regarding her dad not being abusive and hasn't really been part of her life that much and she has survived through cancer to which she was diagnosed with at the age of 17/18. In saying all of this I only came to find out about this after he had died I don't mean about her traumatic childhood I just and cancer I meant everything about this guy. I met her through work to do some training and we got along well and started to fall for each other and we became more closer each day. Just as time passed and her training was coming to an end she told me she's ready to take things seriously with us but after she leaves work as she didn't want to start dating while we were both working together and I was on the same page too. We both agreed to take a week off after she's finished her time at my work and try go on dates/ hanging out etc. Fast forward to the week off we both took I texted her saying I've got this really nice restaurant that I wanted to take to her to as our first date and she replied back saying she doesn't think she's ready for a relationship just yet and she needed to focus on herself and find herself and I was understanding with everything and gave her the time that she needed. She did say she still wanted to talk to me in the meantime. After 2 weeks she messaged me saying she tried to stop two of her friends (both males) fighting and that's when she got hit by her friend let's just call him Lucas the friend that had committed suicide. She rung me later on that night saying she felt that I was the right guy for her and she felt safe around me and we started sort of seeing each other more. During the 2 weeks we hardly spoke she was spending a lot of time with her friends and she went out a lot drinking and I assumed she needed this to maybe I dont know help herself. But after Lucas's death I put all the puzzles together and figured out all this time she was focusing this guy and she was with him trying to help him when she told me she needed to work on herself which made me really upset because I sorta got pushed aside like I was nothing and then she came back when she felt like Lucas was treating her like shit and felt like she wanted to get serious again with us. Her friends even told her to block him and stop talking to him as they saw how he treated her but she was still around him. Fast forward to Lucas's passing they have been messaging back and forth that night it had all happened as she said she was trying really hard to get him to go home as she was worried about the way he was talking and during this we had started dating already. She came over to mine in the morning as she was doing night shift and had sleep once she woke up one of her friends rung her and told her what had happened and she was absolutely shattered and blamed herself for everything, me being a good boyfriend I understood everything after she told me and I have supported and have been there for her since this whole thing had happened. It's been 2 months since his passing and she still blames herself and she spends quite abit of time with Lucas's family mainly his mum and she has also been going over to his best friends house where he used to stay aswel and she's been spending time there a lot too. Now I'm a really understanding guy and i have been all my life but for some reason I am feeling a little insecure that she has been going over to the best friends house and checking up on him and spending time with him and I wouldn't hear from her for maybe a couple of hours. After finding out about her Lucas I have been having a little bit of trust issues with her now reason being I was lied to at the start that she needed time to find herself but really she was helping this other guy all along. have talked about this with her and she understands what she did was wrong but my insecurities have heavily increased since that day and my anxiety is through the roof and I always feel like I'm on the edge now but I don't really express it infront of her. I've had a terrible past aswel where I suffered from really bad depression and would often abuse drugs as a gateway but I've come a long way and have sorted myself out but I feel like it's slowly creeping up on me again because I thought I had finally found someone that I could see a future with because I have been on a few dates before her and I seem to have connected really well with her and she said she felt the same. But my point here is am I being too insecure and selfish here to have these thoughts because she's got a photo of him and her as her cover photo on her Facebook and it just absolutely shatters me whenever I see. Part of the reason could be I have never met any of her friends and she met all of mine, she says they all know about me but never once mentioned about meeting them. Like she says that I'm the one for her and wants to be with me and have a future with me but there's still the thought at the back of my head that somethings gonna happen or the best friend of Lucas might fall for her since she goes there a lot.

posted by /u/Pr33-X in /r/relationship_advice on February 3, 2023 19:42:02

https://www.reddit.com/r/FinancialPlanning/comments/10ryy32/how_do_homeowners_keep_up_with_repairs_on_their/

26\[M\], $78k/yr, $1,888/monthly FHA at 2.65% 30/yr fixed. Disclaimer, I came from being a homeless child to living in a shelter with my mom and then living in public housing. My mom sacrificed a lot to get here and these past couple years have been very hard on all of us. My mother played a huge gamble and put her life savings and emergency funds into buying a fixer upper in 2020. We took out loans, fixed it up and in 2022 we made a profit of $100k. This was the most we've ever had. It has been precisely one year since we bought our current house. It was bought as-is, the home was built on a slope so I had to fix up the basement flooding. It costed approx. $13k for our french drain and sump pump. We paid a couple lump-sum in the beginning and currently owe $7k. The 0% interest rate ends in August so I recently changed the monthly premium to $500/month and will pay a lump sum to finish off when the 0% offer is over. We then needed to mitigate the humidity issues so we installed HVAC downstairs. I opted for mini-split air conditioners for a total cost of $17k. I pay approx. $330/month at 0% which is for a total of 60 months. (upstairs has hvac but it was installed incorrectly. previous owner was a DIY guy and did a furnace and heat pump mismatch but I will correct it after my current hvac loan is paid off) I then paid $13k to finish the basement in cash so now I have $46k in my checking acct. Overall the house is finished. There still remains to be exterior repairs to be made such as the front porch concrete to be the correct grade and slope, fixing the driveway, perimeter edge garden bed to help with drainage and garage concrete is rekt so that needs to be finished, one of the last things I'd like to do is solar panels to get our electric bill to $0. Based on previous estimates and quotes. Driveway is like $2-6k depending on material. Sideyard garden bed for drainage is $2k. I don't know how much concrete for the porch would cost but I imagine roughly $5k and the garage renovation would be like $10k if I were to get concrete, insulation, and drywall. I would run out of money so I've decided to come to a halt and re-evaluate my finances. Note: I am not going to sell and downsize. I've been fortunate to land a 2.65% interest rate. Literally everyone has told me to not sell because that interest rate is rare in this economy. I just want advice how homeowners manage their finances and don't go broke. Thank you all.

posted by /u/picante-x in /r/FinancialPlanning on February 2, 2023 14:48:52

https://www.reddit.com/r/backpain/comments/10rw4xu/neck_pain_arthritis/

Hello everyone! I am wondering if anyone has any suggestions for non-surgical relief for c-spine arthritis. I have Ehlers Danlos and have had osteoarthritis diagnosis since I was in my teens. Recently I had an MRI as I had been having optic neuritis/vision issues, and a bunch of weird neuro symptoms, and it ruled out MS (for now at least, thankfully). All that it found was "spondylitic changes" from C2 to C7 and "bilateral uncovertebral arthropathy" which I understand usually means compression of disc space, then foraminal narrowing on the right side all the way down, ranging from mild (most spots) to moderate (C4-5) to severe (C5-6). I am 33 so maybe that's normal for my age, I dunno. But this started in my late teens. I did physio, massage therapy, and chiro off and on for about 5 years. It used to help a ton, but eventually made the symptoms worse and now my doctor doesn't want me to go back to any private therapists til I am assessed by a spine specialist (which is a 2+ year wait). The last guy I saw said he didn't think neck strength was my issue and my muscles were pretty strong, despite being tense from doing all the work to hold my head up. My main symptoms (aside from severe neck pain and constant headaches) have been a deep squeezing pain in my shoulders and sometimes collarbone area (thought it was gall bladder at first then was told it may be brachial neuritis??) and sometimes down my arms, intermittent numbness and weakness in my hands to the point I will drop things or can't even open a box of crackers or hold a pen, constant cracking and grinding if I move even a little, tingling and odd hot/cold sensations, nausea, dizziness/fatigue, tinnitus, intermittent blurry vision.. Most of the time now my left lower arm and hand is achy, cold, reduced sensation, and weak. (Not looking for diagnosis, I think it is explained by what they found!) It worsens throughout the day so by dinner time I'm wrecked but I'm a single parent and have to keep going... and I can't order in every day, miss any more work, or neglect responsibilities for too long. I'm in Canada and it doesn't seem like they regularly do surgery for this here. I still do my exercises and think they help a little (when I stop for a few days, it's much worse). But the headaches and pain are really getting bad because it's often past the "just push through it" even with a high tolerance. I trialed Gabapentin for a little while but the fatigue/brain fog was bad and didn't lessen with time so I went off. Same with Amitriptyline and it also made me feel overly emotional. NSAIDs do nothing much anymore. Same with muscle relaxers (and the strong ones just knock me out so I can't work). Is there anything else that is good for what I assume is nerve pain? I know it's a though one to treat but wondering if anyone else has been given something that helped.

posted by /u/cafeterraceatnight-x in /r/backpain on February 2, 2023 12:57:29

https://www.reddit.com/r/tipofmytongue/comments/10rvncj/tomtmovie2000s_a_school_movie_where_a_group_of/

I only remember fragments of this movie (whose location I do not know but think it was the U.S.) but by and large, it takes place as follows: One of the kids in the group of students who, as per their teacher's classroom project, publish issues of school newspaper in French is of Arabic origin, lives in a poor household (¿near a metro station?) and has a brother called Kareem who bullies him. The kid is being discriminated against and mocked due to his ethnicity. For a reason that I don't remember, they start to spy on their teachers and one day on a roof which they climbed secretly, looking in from the window of the principal's room, catch their teacher for the French class, a ginger-haired lady, kissing with him, a man of Afro-American origin. This somehow gets out and the French class teacher is getting ready to resign. In the meanwhile this kid has a crush on one of the group members, however, as far as I can recall, gets rejected, because of which he goes into an edgy mood, changes his hairstyle and gives his friends the cold shoulder. In the late movie, there is an event-like gathering where the principal is giving a speech and the girl is also situated there along with other students. This kid, wearing a weird clothing for some reason, takes his bike and rushes off towards the gathering place but is interrupted by his big brother Kareem who throws his bike into a water body (a river or sea). The kid, having no time to lose, jumps onto a jet ski and rides it there. He gets on the platform, takes the microphone and makes a confession about the spying-on-teachers thing, trying to prove their teacher's innocence, and a romantic speech about love and kisses the girl he has a crush on whom he calls to the platform. The teacher for the French class, who I think is about to set out for a different city because I remember seeing her preparing a suitcase, witnesses this on the TV airing live and gets emotional and cries before rushing out of her flat to go hug/kiss her love the principal. Footnote 1: I remember a scene where the aforementioned girl on whom a crush is present is sleeping with her socks on just before being woken up by a ringing cellphone for an urgent night meeting of the group. Footnote 2: The Arabic kid has a curly hair.

posted by /u/Yuri-x in /r/tipofmytongue on February 2, 2023 12:36:35

https://www.reddit.com/r/Incestconfessions/comments/10rvfc0/my_dad_took_a_few_of_my_firsts_blowjob_and_facial/

Backstory: since my mum left my brother and I have lived with my dad. My brother and I have always been close with my dad and got even more so when mum left. I was laying in bed and I started playing with myself watching porn (a girl giving head to a man) my dad walked in as I was ontop of my covers pleasuring myself to the video. He looked stunned for a second then asked to see what I was watching (he saw the video) he asked me "do you like blowjobs?" And I replied "I've never done anything like that" (he had a smile) "would you like to try it?" (I nodded my head) "come sit up" (I sat up infront of him) dad proceeded to get his cock out snd start playing with it to get it hard (he is now hard) "open your mouth" (I grabbed his cock and slowly placed it into my mouth, the taste of cock was actually very pleasant I started to slowly give my dad head (I was copying what videos I have seen) my dad seemed to be enjoying it as he was letting out moans of pleasure, I don't even know how long we was going for but I realised he hadn't cummed yet, so I thought I was doing something wrong. I sped up the movements of my mouth to see if that helps and it seemed to do the trick. "I'm about to cum" unfortunately taking cum was an unfamiliar sensation so after the first shot of cum down my throat I pulled my mouth away from his cock snd got a few more shots of cum on my face. (First facial and blowjob ever) Ever since that day I have my dad head regularly and got detter at it (taking it deeper, not taking 20+ minutes to make him cum and even swallow his cum)

posted by /u/Kaytie-X in /r/Incestconfessions on February 2, 2023 12:27:10

https://www.reddit.com/r/askatherapist/comments/10rveyj/does_this_sound_like_ptsd_or_cptsd/

warning: long post I’ve experienced a bunch of things through my life. I mainly received a PTSD diagnosis from my psychiatrist in 2021 a few months after being raped, and before that I believe my diagnosis was only Severe Depression with Anxiety (at the time we also identified double depression due to me having experienced dysthymia for many years before seeking help), and Atypical Anorexia. On the other hand, my trauma counsellor (who is unable to diagnose in my country) and I have been doing a lot of history taking and identifying negative cognitive distortions and blocking beliefs and horrible self-perception issues stemming from a young age. She is of the impression that my trauma is more complicated than just the rape, as it involves several prior non-rape sexual assaults as well as childhood trauma. Main points are that I grew up in an emotionally abusive (mild-moderately physically abusive) and emotionally neglectful household. So I’m hypervigilant to loud sounds (doors banging, cupboards closing roughly, slamming or putting things on the table really hard showing displeasure, raised voices and shouting), and get quite triggered by them and especially when i sense the “air” becoming upset and tense. Even if it’s not because of me, and directed to someone else. I can identify footsteps, and someone’s mood from footsteps as well. When it gets bad (compared to very abusive households, it is considered quite mild or moderate), I lie in bed and cover my ears and cry and feel scared. Lots of poor cognitions exist as well, about my worth, my identity, my place in relationships, being unlovable and not deserving of social support, of taking up too much space because I’m fat. My eating disorder was also largely caused by my parents over several years of commenting on my body size and weight, and making food decisions for me without my consent, and convincing me to restrict (skipping meals, restricting portions by half, avoiding staple food) and go on crash diets like water diets and liquid diets (soup and pills only). The other side of things is my experience with sexual assault. I’ve felt like an object with holes to be used for sex / men’s pleasure, and felt like it was all i was worth, for the longest time. i don't remember when it really began, but it feels like before 10, because i don't remember almost everything before that age — all i have from the "before" are feelings and poor perceptions + distorted cognitions of myself without reason. Of all the assaults I remember clearly, I was first sexually assaulted at 14. It lasted maybe 20 minutes near my home. I also experienced quite a few subsequent assaults. My last sexual assault before the rape was in 2019 (age 20/21). With each assault I started becoming more and more hypervigilant and fearful of people (especially men), footsteps coming up from behind me would send me into panic. Someone walking past me would scare me. Leaving the house generally felt unsafe. I also feared my own father for no reason, worried he would one day molest or rape me. I constantly had nightmares of being sexually abused and raped for years. While in deep depression in 2020, it eventually got to a point where my thoughts (even at home) about being assaulted again became obsessive — much of my headspace was spent being convinced that I would be raped very soon. I had intrusive images of the most gruesome ways I would be raped, and was convinced that was what would happen to me, that it was impending. It all spiralled to a point where I was convinced that i needed to "prepare" myself to be raped, by seeking out rough and dominant men who would use me very roughly, much like how i expected being raped would feel like. It was never about pleasure, only fear. i lost my virginity to this. i was quite violently raped shortly after beginning this "preparation", from meeting a man that i was meant to "prepare" with. this resulted in a PTSD diagnosis, and the start of me seeing trauma therapists to cope with my sexual trauma. after the rape, a rather vivid memory (with only the face blurred) of one moment of being sexually abused at a family friend's house came up. i was young, i cant tell what age i was in that memory, but my chest feels like it was between 6–8 years old. i'm not sure if it's real or not. also, in each assault, especially the rape, it felt like my real self had left my body and that a “sexual” persona who somehow knew exactly what to do to get through it, had taken my place. in my head, i was aware of the assaults happening and did consciously feel this other persona acting automatically without my control. i saw and heard and felt everything, but i wasn’t in control of my actions or body. i've dealt with rather active SI nearly everyday for the past decade, and have self-harmed from depression, and then SH'ed through reckless unsafe physically abusive sex from PTSD. I have attempted before, and have had many near attempts. for what it's worth, many medications don’t work on me and the ones that do work give me little results. CBT with one therapist has been quite hard to yield any results (although there has been a slight improvement after nearly 3 years of depression therapy). trauma therapy with the trauma counsellor using EMDR and parts work have been hard as well, I feel very numb during EMDR (and thus it doesn’t work well). parts work works a bit better, however my parts are very resistant to change with lots of blocking beliefs. i’ve also been told by both therapists that it seems like I have a “split” between the rational self and emotional self, which i’m unable to integrate; i was also told that i have experienced a total collapse of self, and that i might be experiencing structural dissociation. with all of this in mind, i’ve always wondered if i’m dealing with more than just PTSD (which I understand is mainly single-incident trauma)? it feels like a lot to uncover and many twist and turns and deep interconnections and lots of unknowns. it feels like such a giant monster to tackle with so many different traumatic experiences causing distorted cognitions piling onto each other which then perpetuates more similar traumatic experiences to occur which leads to even more distorted cognitions, and so the cycle continues. it doesn’t feel simple. is there more to my PTSD diagnosis from the rape, or am i just making it more than the simple thing it is?

posted by /u/throw-x-awayz in /r/askatherapist on February 2, 2023 12:26:45

https://i.redd.it/tzpd8vmznufa1.jpg

posted by /u/KID-X-ec in /r/DDLCMods on February 2, 2023 12:16:08

https://www.reddit.com/r/SluttyConfessions/comments/10r0f0z/cheating_with_my_ex_pt_4_and_5/

It has been a while since pt 3 we have not done anything physical since but have been sending each other nudes and videos regularly (for his birthday I sent him a dozen nudes and a masturbation video with me in a school girl outfit) Pt4: since pt 3 my ex and I have not seen each other much in person but have been messaging daily and sending some naughty material back and fourth. One day I was having a lazy bed day and decided to invite him over (hoping he would give me the drive to get up and go out). When he arrived I let him in and he saw I was still in my pyjamas (shorts and a vest) he asked "have I just woke you" I replied "no I just can't be asked with doing anything" (I suggested he join me for a bit then we can go out). As we are laying in bed together I get him to spoon me (I'm little spoon) and he does, he has one arm under my head and the other over my side on my stomach. After a while I feel his cock growing hard against my bum,, I then have a naughty idea and without saying anything pull my shorts down only just passed my bum and I start rubbing his cock until it is fully hard, when I feel it hard I pull it out of his trousers and place it between my legs against my pussy (I whisper) "your not allowed inside of me" which seemed to turn him on more. (I start moving my hips so my pussy massages the top of his cock), I was instantly wet, the feeling of his hard cock pulsating against my pussy was an amazing feeling, he moved his hand from my stomach, places it under my top and starts teasing my boobs. The sensation was heavenly (a few minutes later) I'm guessing it has been a while since he had a release because I feel his cock pulsating hard and his cum flowing out onto my leg and in my shorts. When he finished I hopped in the shower (by myself) and we spent the day chatting on my sofa as if nothing had happened. Pt5: this was 3 months after pt4 I was in a bad mood with my boyfriend so I invite my ex around to have someone to talk to who understands me. He arrived and we started talking about my boyfriend and the situation, he manages to calm me down and we start talking about other stuff, all I could think about was how badly I want him in me so I walked yo my room under the disguise of getting my phone charger. (Few minutes later) I call me ex to the room to help me he walks in and I am completely naked on my bed. He told me "stop being silly" I replied "im not being silly I want you". I'm guessing the urge was to great for him too as he got undressed and on the bed, positioned himself between my thighs ( we both agreed sex shouldn't be what we do as I'm not currently on birth control) so he gets his cock and starts playing with it, he then grabs my hand and places it sgainst my paddy as to say play either yourself to (we both started playing together) we both kept calling each others names out as we played together. (He looked me dead in the eye I knew what was about to happen) he shot thick white ropes of cum up my stomach and chest (I continued to play with myself) he got up from the bed and took a picture of me playing with myself with his cum on my body.

posted by /u/Kaytie-X in /r/SluttyConfessions on February 1, 2023 12:27:01

https://www.reddit.com/r/ehlersdanlos/comments/10qyb0c/neck_painarthritis_compression_headaches/

I will try to summarize. I have hEDS (diagnosed). Lifelong history of migraines. Worsening neck issues over the past 10 to 15 years. The past 6+ years I've had a chronic (non-migraine) headache that feels like pressure and burning that is there most days sometimes weeks at a time nonstop, neck cracking and crunching and pain, nausea, tinnitus, vertigo, and intermittent (now constant) weakness in my arms, tingling, numbness in my hands and sometimes face, etc. Basically, weird neuro stuff. I was tested for MS as it was mimicking it so strongly (I also have similar issues in my lower spine but thankfully it's far less often). The pain level goes from maybe a 3 at best to 10++++ blinding searing hit my head on a wall severe. On a good day, I will wake up feeling okay, but within a few hours of being upright, the pain starts and it all goes downhill from there. It takes the tiniest movement for my neck to go out of place. I thought of a brace, but don't want to use the wrong type. I've tried topomax, amitriptyline, every triptan, the usual OTC like ibuprofen and tylenol, indomethacin, celebrex, heat, cold, pain rubs, TENS, massager, muscle relaxers... I did a short trial of Gabapentin, maybe 3 weeks, but was falling asleep on my feet and doing stupid things like forgetting to wear shoes and felt irritable... and not any less pain that I can remember. I've had non-steroidal trigger point injections and nerve blocks that didn't help. I did chiro, massage therapy, and physio off and on for years, but it got to the point where it was worsening my neck pain. I still do the exercises, but no more hands on manipulation (on doctor's recommendation). Recent MRI showed foraminal stenosis (severe in one spot, mild to moderate in others) and arthritis in each joint to varying degrees. I know some of this is age related (I'm 33) but apparently it's more than they usually see at my age. I dunno what that means, if anything. Is there ANYTHING else that can treat this type of pain? I know if it's nerve pain, they just do gabapentin or amitriptyline but neither worked and the side effects were awful for me. I don't even know what to ask for at this point and my doctor has no ideas. The pain and dysfunction is affecting my work and home life so badly. Surgery is not an option because I live in Canada and they don't even recognize CCI here. There are people who had to raise $100,000+ to go get surgery in the US. :(

posted by /u/cafeterraceatnight-x in /r/ehlersdanlos on February 1, 2023 11:03:16

https://www.reddit.com/r/croatia/comments/10qs7h4/postani_student_dijete_povratnik_iz_inozemstva/

Da li je netko od Vas ovdje bio u poziciji da mu je dijete završilo srednju školu *^((secondary school))* vani *^((u našem slučaju u Engleskoj))* i potom upisalo fakultet u Hrvatskoj? Znači, naša klinka je završila prva 4 razreda u Hrvatskoj, u Engleskoj je krenula u Y6 i sada završava Y13 (6th Form) nakon čega planira upisati Pravni fakultet u Rijeci, HR. Registrirala se na "postani-student" i kod pokušaja dodavanja ocjena, traže ocjene za zadnja 4 razreda srednje škole a u Engleskoj postoje samo GCSE ocjene i A-Levels ocjene. GCSE ocjene i diplomu ima jer to je pisala u Y11 a A-Levels ocjene će dobiti tek sredinom 8 mjeseca jer ispite piše sredinom 5 i početkom 6 mjeseca. Sve je malo zbunjujuće s obzirom na to da jer rok upisa u HR sredina 7 mjeseca? Koliko vidim bit će potrebno prevoditi ocjene/diplome na HR (uz pečat) što nije problem... samo, svi pozivi i svi email-ovi za bilo kakve smjernice završavaju na "postani-student" web stranicama te stranicama željenog fakulteta i s obzirom na to da će srednja škola biti završena van RH jako je teško razaznati što gdje i kako a još teže sada kada Engleska nije dio Europske Unije... Inače, zivkamo i šaljemo emailove za upis na fakultet ^((konkretno s našim inozemnim slučajem)) od sredine prošle godine i samo su nam govorili pričekajte do početka 2 mjeseca 2023 godine i onda krenite s prijavom. Sad gledam i ispalo je da su se dijelile stipendije za djecu povratnike te je rok prijave bio do 20.01.2023 na što nam nitko u tih zadnjih pola godine nije skrenuo pažnju. Sva iskustva su dobrodošla. Hvala

posted by /u/x-cattitude in /r/croatia on February 1, 2023 06:50:36

https://www.reddit.com/r/OutoftheAbyss/comments/10qjnw8/malcanthet_in_the_darklake_what_the_other_demon/

Malcanthet: Queen of the Succubi ​ https://preview.redd.it/ntebuu6pzhfa1.jpg?width=400&format=pjpg&auto=webp&v=enabled&s=4bc3075b8cb5713c92d0bad2bde96a748f84db07 **Drizzt Canon:** \- We have a direct tale of Malcanthet during Out of the Abyss in the Drizzt novel "Hero." The only problem is that Drizzt cannon diverges a little from the adventure in that Demogorgon is slain by himself with no reference to DeVir's spell. That said, here's what we get (mostly spoiler-free): Malcanthet was indeed in the Underdark. She considered herself under Demogorgon's protection, so she was likely in the Darklake region of the main campaign. When her protector fell, she fled to Faerun to the land of Impiltur (to the west, above the Deep Wastes), where she caused mischief using her possession abilities. ​ **A couple ideas we could derive from Drizzt Canon:** 1. Soneillon - Impiltur is remarkably close to the home of one of her rivals, Soneillon. While Malcanthet would likely barely consider Soneillon worth her time, Soneillon might get interesting ideas of supplanting Malcanthet as Queen of the Succubi. 2. The Deep King - Malcanthet could be, or be responsible for, the succubus who is tempting the Deep King. While this is formally attributed to Graz'zt, the actions of that succubus are exactly the type of thing that Malcanthet would do. If this were the case, she would likely have her fingers in many goings-on in Gracklestugh, possibly causing any of the problems in the book. I for one would like to see her as the patron of Buppido. as one of the weaker demon lords, it would be a neat early-game event to see her take on Themberchaud or the combinded forces of the party, Gracklestugh, or even Ilvara. ​ **Her canonical goals in current D&D history:** A. Mastiphal - She has recently left her lover, Mastiphal, to become the consort of Demogorgon. It's not unlikely that any event including Malcanthet could also include the demon lord of Pursuit, trying to win back her favor. B. Sifkhu - Malcanthet has found the sleeping loumara demon lord Sifkhu. As the only known demon lord of the type of demons focused on possession, she lusts after it's power and is trying to find a way to suck it's power out without losing her physical form. Powerful mages like Gromph, knowledge bases like Gravenhollow, or experienced life-suckers like the Mind-Flayers might be on her list of pursuits. C. Acererak - Out of the Abyss is conveniently placed just before the event of Tomb of Annihilation. At some point, Malcanthet has received a Mirror of Life trapping from Acererak and asked to fill it with souls for him to feed on. Indeed, the Mirror plays a prominent role in the novel "Hero." Acererak is located some ways away from The Darklake, his dungeon beneath, and probably connecting to, the Burning Rift in the Firelands. ​ **What I believe Malcanthet is most likely doing:** Upon coming to the Underdark, Malcanthet immediately sought out Acererak for his unparalleled knowledge of the nature of souls. She struck a deal with him to fill a Mirror of Life with powerful souls, and in exchange he would help her to absorb Sifkhu. Immediately afterwards, she called out to Demogorgon to summon her to his side. In the Darklake, she began to prowl around, causing mischief while capturing souls. She also came upon a few succubus such as the one serving the Deep King. While Shal was indeed a vassal of Grazzt, all succubi at least pay lip service to Malcanthet, and will follow her orders so long as they don't defy Grazzt's. She directed Shal to plant more seeds of chaos in Gracklestugh, which come to some fruitition after the PCs leave it. She is softening the city up for a cult to Demogorgon. During this time, Mastiphal found her. As he is the finest hunter among the demon lords, she conscripted him to help her find souls for her mirror. She managed to capture at least a powerful hydra and a beholder. At the completion of DeVir's spell, she was one of the few Demon Lords that was able to resist the calling, or at least resist it's effects that induce mindless rage. Instead, she asked Mastiphal to go and slay her enemies, which he did with glee. With the protection of Demogorgon gone, she fled to Faerun where she caused mischief in Impiltur, which she divined would surely attract some high level adventurers. **Description:** Malcanthet is described as being among the first of the Succubi to come into existence in the Abyss. She is ruthless, having battled numerous other demons, lords, and succubi in untold numbers of wars to hold her current title. Physically, she is an incredibly beautiful human-like female with bat-wings, horns, and a long prehensile tail tipped with a spike-like stinger. She will dress in whatever way she needs, but her favored attire is a black and red affair that crossed her chest and hips, but was joined at those two place only by fabric on one side, leaving most of her stomach, legs, and arms bare. Seduction is indeed her strongest play. Her home is the 570th layer of the Abyss, also known as Shendilavri and she defends it against her long time enemies Grazzt, Baphomet, and Yeenoghu. She does have a powerful ally in Demogorgon, her current paramour, and thus her place as the Queen of Succubi is all but completely secure. ​ https://preview.redd.it/n0vak3pt0ifa1.png?width=800&format=png&auto=webp&v=enabled&s=c83a2b9f86d885982b26366617c7e893a14cc537 Deep Speech: Malcanthet can use the following three abilities out of combat using a truly unholy and dark language that is known to few and able to be spoken by fewer. It takes her 30 seconds speaking in the presence of the targets effected to accomplish. Additionally, she can use no abilities that require a Charisma or Wisdom saving throw for the following 30 seconds after using these abilities: \- Dread: All creatures in a 30 foot radius must make a Wisdom saving throw (DC 25). Upon failure, non-evil creatures with 1-5 hit dice are frightened for 1 minute and must flee until they are out of sight, evil creatures with 1-5 hit dice are frightened for 1 minute and must cower, non-evil creatures with 6-10 hit dice have disadvantage on all ability checks, saving throws, and attack checks for 1 miniute, and evil creatures with 6-10 hit dice are charmed for 1 minute. Creatures of 11 or above hit dice have a deep emotional response to the words but are otherwise uneffected. \- Corruption: All innanimate matter and materials within a 30 foot radius take double damage from any attacks for 30 seconds. \- Dark Unity: She establishes a hive mind with any swarm of vermin or animals of Intellgence 2 or lower. She can give one command to them as if she hads used the suggestion spell that lasts one day or until it is executed, whichever comes first.

posted by /u/Flacon-X in /r/OutoftheAbyss on January 31, 2023 22:46:09

https://www.reddit.com/r/FiveMServers/comments/10qfibe/hidden_roleplay_active_development_custom/

​ [Hidden Roleplay](https://preview.redd.it/2sp61s2z1hfa1.png?width=2560&format=png&auto=webp&v=enabled&s=4514725a707a58f95556f093b73f7117b06205e6) Hidden Roleplay ***Check us out*** * **FiveM Connect Link**: [\- https://cfx.re/join/zqljr5](https://cfx.re/join/zqljr5) * **FiveM Server Information**: [https://servers.fivem.net/servers/detail/zqljr5](https://servers.fivem.net/servers/detail/zqljr5) * **FiveM Forums**: [https://forum.cfx.re/t/4628768](https://forum.cfx.re/t/4628768) * **Our Discord**: [http://discord.hiddenroleplay.net](http://discord.hiddenroleplay.net/) ***About Hidden Roleplay*** Hidden Roleplay is a community-driven economy-based server that focuses on roleplay interaction rather than grinding mechanics. Meanwhile, keeping a balance in between for those who enjoy grinding aspects within economy servers. Hidden was founded in July of 2021 and has been a growing community ever since. ***Why Join Hidden Roleplay?*** Hidden Roleplay is a small community always looking for new blood. We aim to provide an entertaining server that favors those with any level of experience within the roleplay world. The team at Hidden has the experience and knowledge-giving ability to provide dedicated support in order to make sure **your experience is superb**. The development aspect within Hidden Roleplay provides consistent daily, weekly, and monthly updates, giving the city refreshing activities all the time. ***The*** ***Features of Hidden*** **Employment/Activities** * 🚓 Whitelisted Police * 🚒 Whitelisted Fire/EMS * 📱 Whitelisted Communications * 🪝 Whitelisted Department of Transportation * 🏢 Whitelisted Player-Owned Business Opportunities * 🧰 Whitelisted Player-Owned Mechanic Shops * 🚛 Public Works Opportunities * 🚕 Public Service Opportunities * 📬 USPS Employment Opportunities * ⛏️ Mining Employment Opportunities * 💸 Security Employment Opportunities * 🚜 Farming Opportunities * 🎣 Fishing Opportunities * 🦌 Hunting Opportunities * 🔴 Paintball Arena ***And much much more...*** **City Exclusives** * 🏘️ Live & Reside Anywhere * 📻 Custom Car * 🚗 Custom Music Boomboxes * 🚩 Whitelisted Gangs w/ Territories * 🏎️ Real-Life Exclusive Vehicles * 🖥️ Dedicated Support & Development * 💉 Custom Drugs & Alcohol Effects * 🦴 In-depth Medical System w/ Injuries * 💯 Optimized & Smooth for Performance * 🪵 In-depth Crafting System * 🔫 Real-Life Weapon Models * 🐦 Twitter & Phone Utilities * 🎥 Streamer & Content Creator Friendly * 🗳️ Elections, DOJ, and more! ***And much much more...*** **Customization & Style** * 👕 Custom Male Attire/Accessories * 🧺 Custom Unisex Attire/Accessories * 👚 Custom Female Attire/Accessories * 💈 Custom Hair Styles * 👟 Custom Footwear ***Check us out*** * **FiveM Forums**: [https://forum.cfx.re/t/4628768](https://forum.cfx.re/t/4628768) * **Our Discord**: [http://discord.hiddenroleplay.net](http://discord.hiddenroleplay.net/)

posted by /u/Vinny-X in /r/FiveMServers on January 31, 2023 19:33:27

https://i.redd.it/y7tydu11kifa1.jpg

posted by /u/x-canuck in /r/Bulges on January 31, 2023 19:32:47

https://v.redd.it/ksemcunwjgfa1

posted by /u/X-miseria in /r/renanplay on January 31, 2023 17:48:18

https://v.redd.it/1agpmilbjgfa1

posted by /u/X-miseria in /r/ESTILOZAP on January 31, 2023 17:45:01

https://i.redd.it/f3jgi5h5zhfa1.jpg

posted by /u/X-miseria in /r/ESTILOZAP on January 31, 2023 17:35:31

https://www.reddit.com/r/u_grocery-x/comments/10qbetl/why_massage_your_baby_the_benefits_of_baby_massage/

These are just some of the many benefits of baby massage, and the reasons why it’s such an important and beneficial activity for both parents and babies. Baby massages have a variety benefits. **With each gentle stroke, your baby will feel nurtured and loved, strengthening the bond between the two of you**. 1. Promoting relaxation & sleep Massaging a baby can help them relax and calm down, which can lead to better sleep patterns and improved sleep quality. This can also help reduce stress and anxiety levels for both the baby and the parent. 2. Relieving discomfort relieve discomfort from digestive issues like colic, gas, and constipation. The gentle touch and stimulation of the digestive system can help ease discomfort and promote healthy digestion. 3. Improving circulation stimulates blood flow, which can improve overall circulation and boost the baby’s health and wellness. This can also help bring oxygen and nutrients to the baby’s cells and tissues. 4. Enhancing development improve muscle tone and coordination, which can support overall physical development. The gentle touch and stimulation can also help promote sensory development and enhance communication skills. 5. Bonding and attachment can create a strong bond between the parent and baby, promoting attachment and a sense of security. This can also help the parent understand the baby’s cues and respond to their needs more effectively. 6. Reducing stress and anxiety reduce stress and anxiety levels, promoting a sense of calm and wellbeing for both the baby and the parent. The gentle touch and attention can help soothe and comfort the baby, and also help the parent feel more relaxed and connected. 7. Supporting growth and development help boost their immune system, support overall growth, and enhance their overall health and wellness. The gentle touch and stimulation can also help support the baby’s natural development and promote healthy growth. 8. Improving skin condition improve the texture and condition of their skin, and help keep it hydrated and moisturized. This can also help prevent dry skin, rashes, and other skin issues. 9. Enhancing communication promote communication between the parent and baby, and help the baby develop a sense of trust and security. This can also help the parent understand the baby’s cues and respond to their needs more effectively. 10. Encouraging self-awareness massaging a baby can help them become more aware of their body, and develop a sense of self. This can also help promote healthy development and a positive self-image. It’s important to always perform baby massage in a gentle and safe manner, following proper techniques and guidelines, and to consult with a pediatrician or a certified baby massage therapist if in doubt. 🔔 please like share and subscribe my channel ‼️ 🌈 Connect with me on social 🎉 ►► E-mail : [info@grocery-x.com](mailto:info@grocery-x.com) ►► WordPress : https:/[www.grocery-x.com/](http://www.grocery-x.com/) ►► Medium : [https://grocery-x.medium.com/](https://grocery-x.medium.com/) ►► Quora : [https://www.quora.com/profile/Grocery-Shop-3](https://www.quora.com/profile/Grocery-Shop-3) ►► Blogger : [https://grocery-x.blogspot.com/](https://grocery-x.blogspot.com/) ►► Tumblr : [https://www.tumblr.com/grocery-x](https://www.tumblr.com/grocery-x) ►► YouTube : [https://www.youtube.com/@grocery-X](https://www.youtube.com/@grocery-X) \#BabyMassageBenefits #WhyMassageYourBaby #TheMagicOfBabyMassage #NurturingTouchForBaby #BondingThroughMassage #HealthyDevelopmentThroughMassage #RelaxingBabyMassage #ComfortingBabyTouch #BetterSleepWithBabyMassage #EnhancingBabyWellbeing

posted by /u/grocery-x in /r/u_grocery-x on January 31, 2023 16:42:16

https://www.reddit.com/r/SluttyConfessions/comments/10q5iyf/cheating_with_my_ex_pt2_3/

I stopped dating the guy from the last story and started dating another guy who I started living with straight away. (PT2) Whilst I was living in an apartment with my current boyfriend I invited my ex over to come see the place but made sure my boyfriend was not in as they don't get a long very well. My ex came around and we started talking about life, nothing sexual was being done or talked about. Suddenly he put his arm around me for a hug and I suddenly started feeling aroused (unknown why he just driver's me crazy), I put my hand over his trousers and started rubbing his cock until I felt him get hard. He said to me "maybe we shouldn't do this you are happy with your new boyfriend" I agreed and went to my room to calm down, but suddenly a huge urge came over me I stripped down naked, went to my draw and picked out a matching blue lacey thong and bra set (his favourite set) put it on and walked out into the living room, he was stunned and couldn't say anything, I sat next to him and grabbed his hand and placed it on my boob (over my bra) and started massaging my boost with his hand. Whilst he did that I started playing with his cock over his trousers again, he was hard straight away and I couldn't wait I pulled his cock out of his trousers, he didn't say anything he was focused on my underwear. I then put his cock in my mouth and started to give him head, as I was giving him head he placed his right hand on my ass and used his fingers to rub my pussy over my underwear. (10+ minutes later) he tell me he is about to cum so I speed up my movements and I suddenly feel a huge surge of cum filling my mouth, as I allow the cum to fill my mouth I await for him to finish, remove his cock from my mouth, show him the cum in mouth and swallow it all. (PT3) a few weeks after (pt2) it was around my birthday, my ex asked "what can I get you for your birthday?" I said "I need some new clothes" he replied "I will take you out clothes shopping". The day he takes me shopping starts of all normal and as we are shopping I see a few beautiful sets of underwear and joking ask for them but he buys them anyway. Nothing is said and he helps me take the clothes he had bought back to mine and my boyfriends flat. We sit down and talk, nothing different then I offer to show him what we bought (fashion show) he agrees so I start doing a fashion show putting on tops, jeans etc that he bought me and as the show comes to an end I decide to show him what I look like in the underwear so I wear only just the underwear (he bought me 3 different matching sets which I showed one at a time) the third time I am in a black lacey matching set, I walk up to him get on my knees infront of him sitting on my sofa (I get his cock out and start tossing him off) 5 minutes later he tells me he is about to cum so I put my mouth around his cock and he shoots thick ropes of cum down the back of my throat, I lock eyes with him with his cock still in my mouth and swallow his cum. I spend the next 30 minutes in that underwear before getting changed as I was cold. (Later that evening whilst my boyfriend was home I got into the set of underwear not for my boyfriend but to take pictures and send them to my ex)

posted by /u/Kaytie-X in /r/SluttyConfessions on January 31, 2023 12:50:30

http://test.civunion.com/?test2

posted by /u/Owain-X in /r/u_Owain-X on January 31, 2023 12:03:55

http://test.civunion.com/?test1

posted by /u/Owain-X in /r/u_Owain-X on January 31, 2023 11:58:37

http://test.civunion.com/

posted by /u/Owain-X in /r/u_Owain-X on January 31, 2023 11:49:28

https://www.reddit.com/r/SluttyConfessions/comments/10q3773/the_first_time_i_cheated_with_my_ex/

Backstory: My ex and I dated for 3 years we had a highly emotional and sexual relationship, the love was pure and we had sex daily. We broke up due to an argument and have remained close til this day. We are both still in love with one another but both too afraid to try again just incase it doesn't work. The first time I cheated with him was when I was dating this guy after me and him broke up, I went to visit my ex for the first time since breaking up so we could talk, I went to his house, we started talking and I mentioned about binge eating since we broke up he said he couldn't see a difference, but I knew. I requested to use his weighing scales which he said I could. I went into his bathroom, closed the door, stripped naked and weighed myself. Without thinking I walked from his bathroom to his room naked (It was normal for me to do that when we was dating) I walked into his bedroom and his eyes widened, I realised what I had done. But a part of me didn't care he stood up walked towards me and started playing with my boobs and pussy, I could see he was getting turned on and so was I. When he got hard he stripped himself naked, grabbed me by the throat (one of my turn ons) and pushed me onto his bed, the second my back hit the bed I knew what was going to happen so I spread my legs revealing my pussy and giving consent (I wanted him bad). He didn't hesitate to get in between my legs he rubbed the head of his cock against my pussy and just before putting his cock in me he grabbed my throat, stared into my eyes and forced himself into me, the feeling was heavenly, he then started fucking me hard, 10-15 minutes later he grabbed my legs, placed my ankles behind my ears and started pounding me hard not even 2 minutes of pounding before I feel him Cumming deep inside of me. All the memories and feelings poured back. I spent the rest of the day in bed with him we had sex numerous of times and I even gave him head a few times.

posted by /u/Kaytie-X in /r/SluttyConfessions on January 31, 2023 11:20:16

https://i.redd.it/7k80xu7qxefa1.jpg

posted by /u/x-twigs in /r/GroundedGame on January 31, 2023 10:58:33
Top
/r/AskDocs/comments/10uth13/strange_lesion_on_my_uvula_need_clarification/j7dybga/

Id send you an HPV test + a panel for other STIs (unless you’ve never had any sort of sexual contact).

Commented by /u/Draker-X in /r/AskDocs on February 5, 2023 21:12:25
/r/Warhammer40kEsp/comments/10tx3wq/quiero_ver_las_imágenes_más_épicas_q_tengan_de/j7dy81h/

Definitivamente la de Sanguinius resguardando la entrada principal del Castillo de Terra

Commented by /u/Draker-X in /r/Warhammer40kEsp on February 5, 2023 21:11:39
/r/meirl/comments/10ulgi8/me_irl/j7dxt9e/

This is literally the exact same thing for me, everything word for word.

Commented by /u/Draker-X in /r/meirl on February 5, 2023 21:08:28
/r/Eldenring/comments/10uto57/i_cant_be_the_only_one_who_reacted_like_this_to/j7dxqq0/

It’s definitely a tie between DS3 and Bloodborne.

Commented by /u/Draker-X in /r/Eldenring on February 5, 2023 21:07:54
/r/Yankee_Clickers/comments/10tibos/schedule_for_week_of_february_5_2023/j7dxpvg/

[Once you can see it clearly, it's already too late. | Eurodollar University](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5QZGEy3JmsU)

Commented by /u/Draker-X in /r/Yankee_Clickers on February 5, 2023 21:07:43
/r/rareinsults/comments/10un2pt/they_make_an_episode_without_a_wetass_pword_in/j7dxmh8/

If he thinks The Last of Us is about zombies, he doesn’t know what he’s talking about.

Commented by /u/Draker-X in /r/rareinsults on February 5, 2023 21:06:58
/r/Warhammer40kEsp/comments/10u7en0/peter_turbo/j7dxcos/

Ahora es verde xd

Commented by /u/Draker-X in /r/Warhammer40kEsp on February 5, 2023 21:04:50
/r/Warhammer40kEsp/comments/10uf7o0/chicos_estamos_a_salvo_vinieron_los_refuer/j7dx8mv/

"Estos son los Marines Espaciales mas extraños que he visto...talvez son algun capitulo suscesor, ¿porque no vamos a preguntarles?"

Commented by /u/Draker-X in /r/Warhammer40kEsp on February 5, 2023 21:03:56
/r/CarTalkUK/comments/10uac3j/a_new_found_fear_of_the_back_end_leaving_me_is/j7dx84h/

I second this, have seen bikers fall because of diesel spills. Emergency services usually come along and dump what looks like sand on the road to soak it up and prevent other road users from slipping. (Biker was okay btw, just shaken up)

Commented by /u/Draker-X in /r/CarTalkUK on February 5, 2023 21:03:49
/r/grammys/comments/10utxmp/where_can_i_watch_the_grammys_in_canada_without/j7dx7mb/

Not looking to get banned. Use google

Commented by /u/Draker-X in /r/grammys on February 5, 2023 21:03:42
/r/Brawlhalla/comments/10uuk86/this_game_is_so_good_theres_nothing_wrong_with_it/j7dx7gb/

had no control over character btw

Commented by /u/Draker-X in /r/Brawlhalla on February 5, 2023 21:03:40
/r/AskDocs/comments/10uucck/20f_accidentally_took_2000mg_paracetamol/j7dwugm/

Healthy adults generally tolerate 4g per day, some recommend no more than 3. Your liver will be fine.

Commented by /u/Draker-X in /r/AskDocs on February 5, 2023 21:00:50
/r/CarTalkUK/comments/10u6whz/just_got_the_car_washed_yesterday_how_do_you_lot/j7dwpju/

Aha, my family park under a tree and they've given up washing their cars. Doesn't take long from washing it to having a load of sap and bird shit back on the paintwork again. It's a long battle which we eventually lost as cleaning every other day was tedious

Commented by /u/Draker-X in /r/CarTalkUK on February 5, 2023 20:59:48
/r/movies/comments/10a440d/new_poster_for_m_night_shyamalans_knock_at_the/j7dwlg7/

Very Olly Moss. Digging it.

Commented by /u/Draker-X in /r/movies on February 5, 2023 20:58:56
/r/memes/comments/10utyqs/you_know_even_if_we_may_never_get_along_as_a/j7dwkmy/

True true. Just trash

Commented by /u/Draker-X in /r/memes on February 5, 2023 20:58:45
/r/FuckImOld/comments/10q4c9m/who_heres_first_experience_online_was_the_msdos/j7dwibi/

yeah me too. on my BBS when they got internet they would upload everyone's e-mail once a day because bandwidth was so expensive.

Commented by /u/Draker-X in /r/FuckImOld on February 5, 2023 20:58:15
/r/lewdgames/comments/10ut2rk/are_there_any_lewd_games_that_play_from_a_womans/j7dw65j/

Good list, the only other ones I can really think of are Survival of Sarah Rose and Overgrown Genesis.

Commented by /u/Draker-X in /r/lewdgames on February 5, 2023 20:55:37
/r/AskDocs/comments/10utoic/should_i_still_go_to_a_gynecologist_if_im_not_and/j7dw4br/

I know, don’t worry. I learned about it until I was in med school :) Here’s some detailed info about sone myths about it https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6547601/

Commented by /u/Draker-X in /r/AskDocs on February 5, 2023 20:55:13
/r/FuckImOld/comments/10rzh8y/cottonelle_colored_toilet_paper_1982/j7dw2gu/

not to mention toxic shock syndrome

Commented by /u/Draker-X in /r/FuckImOld on February 5, 2023 20:54:49
/r/gaming/comments/10ufm25/most_toxic_gaming_community/j7dw0i3/

Path of Titans is pretty high up there I think in the sense that the in game chat and the attitude and play style of a large quantity of players is very toxic.

Commented by /u/Draker-X in /r/gaming on February 5, 2023 20:54:24
/r/memes/comments/10utyqs/you_know_even_if_we_may_never_get_along_as_a/j7dvsts/

Good fuck that subhuman trash

Commented by /u/Draker-X in /r/memes on February 5, 2023 20:52:45
/r/Yankee_Clickers/comments/10tibos/schedule_for_week_of_february_5_2023/j7dvp6w/

[Major Investment Bank Warns Markets Are Becoming Unstable and Unhinged as a Doom Loop Begins | Steven Van Metre](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z9bcX7okuDc)

Commented by /u/Draker-X in /r/Yankee_Clickers on February 5, 2023 20:51:57
/r/bengals/comments/10ukive/why_are_mock_drafts_always_saying_were_grabbing_a/j7dvkqq/

^^^ this guy gets it... I'm team Bijan as well

Commented by /u/Draker-X in /r/bengals on February 5, 2023 20:51:00
/r/AskDocs/comments/10uu5du/dark_mark_under_toenail_not_sure_if_its_something/j7dvjry/

Please go to a dermatologist, you need to make sure that’s not a melanoma.

Commented by /u/Draker-X in /r/AskDocs on February 5, 2023 20:50:48
/r/pathoftitans/comments/10ufbjy/why_do_you_think_this_game_has_a_more_toxic/j7dvgjy/

Mix packing is brilliant if you're on the right side of one. But if you're on the receiving end of a full on assault, which I have been many times, then all I can say is, good luck!

Commented by /u/Draker-X in /r/pathoftitans on February 5, 2023 20:50:07
/r/GirlGamers/comments/10svn10/women_cant_handle_that_amount_of_stress_he_said/j7dv6jz/

I would play tarkov if there was women characters

Commented by /u/Draker-X in /r/GirlGamers on February 5, 2023 20:47:55
/r/FuckImOld/comments/10sbbym/a_dodge_aries_k_sedan_mr_rooney_parks_it_near_a/j7dv3td/

drove one of those as a taxi for 2 years. Slush would pile on top of the transmission and freeze around the shift lever which was made of peanut butter and when you tried to out it in part the arm would bend then you were stuck in drive. sicking you in a customer's driveway until someone can come to haul you out. Also the bottom of the rad was exposed below the front bumper so stuff on the road and ice can break them

Commented by /u/Draker-X in /r/FuckImOld on February 5, 2023 20:47:20
/r/AskDocs/comments/10utoic/should_i_still_go_to_a_gynecologist_if_im_not_and/j7duzv1/

Also the hymen is just a bit of tissue at the entrance of the vagina, it varies in shape and size. People who have had intercourse can still have it and viceversa. A gynecologist doesnt need to cut anything to give you an exam when necessary.

Commented by /u/Draker-X in /r/AskDocs on February 5, 2023 20:46:27
/r/cuentaleareddit/comments/10uhepc/ustedes_creen_en_fenómenos_paranormales_y_cosas/j7duqjo/

La vd no, pero me gustaría oír sus anécdotas

Commented by /u/Draker-X in /r/cuentaleareddit on February 5, 2023 20:44:27
/r/AskDocs/comments/10utoic/should_i_still_go_to_a_gynecologist_if_im_not_and/j7dumo7/

Hi there. You can and should still get tested for cervical cancer. The hymen doesn’t “break”, it’s just a bit of tissue at the entrance of the vagina. Size and shape varies, and you can still have that tissue even if you’re not a virgin, or some people might not have much at all. Some people start testing at 21, others at 25. Let them know you have never had intercourse, if nothing has ever been in your vagina it might be uncomfortable but it’s not a contraindication for the screening.

Commented by /u/Draker-X in /r/AskDocs on February 5, 2023 20:43:37
/r/Yankee_Clickers/comments/10tibos/schedule_for_week_of_february_5_2023/j7dulr3/

[Don Lemon is BREAKING. Suffers complete MELTDOWN as his career FLOPS! | Liberal Hivemind](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3nLzwjM-uO8]

Commented by /u/Draker-X in /r/Yankee_Clickers on February 5, 2023 20:43:25